Moving on
Moving on can be interpreted in different ways and in different situations. It might be in relationships: friends, family or love. It could also be in schools, professions, a club or somewhere you live. There is endless possibilities and phases you may go through in life until you settle down and find the right place for you.
From a young age you are taught to "move on" as you move schools/ classes or grades/years. However many people still are scared to move on, some may be happy but scared because there's a little bit of fear hidden inside. Moving on should never be scary or should never stop YOU from making a choice you really want to do, however because of that fear you decide to play it safe instead and go with a choice that you aren't really happy with. I am not going to say that moving on is not hard however I will say that: yes you will feel nervous, yes you might miss people but through out it all you need to pull yourself together and find some confidence to even try and say hi to people to build new relationships. I am going to be honest and say it will be harder for people to leave if they have people they will miss and if they are connected with people on a deeper level than standard friendship.
Furthermore, you have to get used to the fact that you will either have to leave people ( even if you don't want to ) or they will come and go themselves. A lot of people say that they will keep in touch, however we all know how that story ends. Majority of the people will get on with their lives, they may not talk to you because they are busy, or simply because they don't want to. No matter how good of a person you are, or you see yourself, some people have to be replaced and sometimes you are too. But those special people will stay, also you have to remember that some people are like this...
Furthermore, you have to get used to the fact that you will either have to leave people ( even if you don't want to ) or they will come and go themselves. A lot of people say that they will keep in touch, however we all know how that story ends. Majority of the people will get on with their lives, they may not talk to you because they are busy, or simply because they don't want to. No matter how good of a person you are, or you see yourself, some people have to be replaced and sometimes you are too. But those special people will stay, also you have to remember that some people are like this...
Ultimately, be brave and stay strong! everyone goes through it, and most people will be in the same situation as you therefore remember that - "it all starts with one word, choose it wisely"
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Josephine Beth-xx
Josephine Beth-xx
loved this read, I am experiencing this now. Thank you
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for reading and commenting, haha same here I am in a pickle of which sixth form I should go to!
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