Do it, say it and make the first move!

This post title can relate to so many different things but the main thing I want to talk about is friendships.

By now people have started new schools, colleges and sixth forms. Many had doubts about talking to new people, making new friends or being accepted in general.

Now a days, there's a point where being too outgoing or up front is bad because it makes people feel intimidated. I feel as if people around me personally aren't as expressive as they used to be as they were made to conform due to society or their community. Many people these days are "followers". 

Furthermore, I would like to reiterate that if you want to go up and say something  to someone, do it! Because if you don't later you will be wishing that you did! If you want to compliment someone, go ahead because it can make their day a little bit brighter. Obviously, not everyone is going to welcome or react the same to a conversation due to mood or personality in general. You just have to give it a little time. 

People now have so much power being included in social media sites, however many are scared to share or ask others for theirs. Don't be! Social media is about connecting ask them for their snapchat they won't mind! Because it's not as personal as a Facebook or phone number, it's okay to ask. For example: Buzzfeed did this experiment and asked strangers to share their Netflix password, guess what? They gave him their Netflix  password! Therefore why wouldn't a person share their snapchat with you? Many people dream of being famous on YouTube, Facebook, insta and Twitter therefore they wouldn't mind strangers asking them for details to be followed because fans are strangers you turn into family! 

Ultimately, don't hesitate and do it! Obviously don't push it but sell yourself and present yourself in a way that appeals, be open and clear and remember that that person could potentionally end up a really good friend of yours or even be a person you end up in a relationship with! So without further a do... 

Always supporting and voting for you.
Josephine Beth-xx 


  1. This post made me smile. So positive and motivational. xo,

  2. Amazing post, it was so inspiring xx

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  3. I always rant about how people are sheep these days aha... Great post! :)

  4. I always rant about how people are sheep these days aha... Great post! :)


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