Do you have to choose one or can you choose both?

Sometimes you will find yourselves in situations where you get choices, like some people I'm one of those indecisive people. But when it comes to making decisions that affect your life can you afford to be indecisive, when it comes to choosing between people do you really have to choose one way or can you choose both?

Usually, if you tell someone your problems they will automatically tell you their opinion, if that person is someone you're close to and that you love, platonically or not. You tend to trust their opinion. However, if their opinion throws you into limbo what do you do? 

Say you had to choose between a group of people and one person. Could you get away with choosing both? In all honesty the choice is yours, if you chose one person over a group that's your choice and if that group decides to dislike you for it then they weren't meant to be in your life anyway. Let it go!

People need to also understand that they can give their opinion but it is wrong to push their opinion onto someone who clearly is distraught about a situation, even if you think your opinion is best it's not right to force, you can lightly persuade but don't guilt trip them or make them feel bad or force them to think the way you think. 

If people are meant to be in your lives they will get over it, give it time they will understand and they will eventually see what you see, if your choice is the right choice for you! 

Ultimately, what I'm trying to say is that you make your own choice and you make your own path there's not only two choices; you can create whatever you want to create. Don't worry about anybody else when it's you that it will affect the most. I'm not saying don't have compassion and don't care I'm just saying that you don't always have to have everyone else as number one, it's okay to put yourself first. It might just turn out you were right all along! 

Always supporting and voting for you.
Josephine Beth-xx 


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